I met Olyvia in the fall of 1999, when we were both marching with the San Jose Raiders Color Guard—she in the A guard, and me in the Open guard. What started as shared shifts selling pull tabs, Bonanza games, and running the snack bar quickly blossomed into a friendship full of laughter, late-night dinners, beach trips, and shopping sprees. Over the years, we not only marched together but also taught color guard side by side at Monta Vista High School. Even after I moved from the Bay Area to Reno, our bond never faded. We’ve reunited in San Francisco to cheer on our beloved SF Giants and taken magical Disney trips together—because yes, we’re proud Disney adults! When I thought about who I wanted standing beside me on one of the most important days of my life, there was no question. Olyvia has been my teammate, my travel buddy, my confidante, and my forever friend. I’m so honored to have her by my side as my Maid of Honor.

Ray met Byron over a decade ago while they were both working at Amazon. What started as a simple carpool arrangement quickly turned into a lasting friendship—one that survived job changes and a stint as roommates. Byron eventually became a nurse, Ray moved on to XPO, but their bond only grew stronger. Byron and his wife played a pivotal role in Ray’s love story, introducing him to Dani and cheering them on every step of the way. To Ray, Byron isn’t just a friend—he’s the little brother he never had. These days, you’ll find them at Slieve Brewing, their favorite local hangout, where they once took an amateur brewing class together. Whether it’s rolling dice in their Dungeons & Dragons campaign or dominating trivia nights with their crew of nerds, their friendship is built on laughter, loyalty, and a whole lot of shared adventures.

As we begin our journey as a blended family, I couldn’t imagine our wedding day without my future stepdaughters by my side. They’re not just part of my life—they’re part of my heart. Having them as my bridesmaids is a celebration of the love, laughter, and connection we’ve already built, and the beautiful future we’re creating together. Sharing this moment with them means everything.